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How Do
I Know If It's For Me?
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If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit drinking or using
entirely, or if you have little control over the amount you consume, you
are probably an alcoholic and/or an addict. If that is the case, you may
be suffering from a problem which only a spiritual solution will conquer.
If you are as seriously alcoholic or addicted as we were, we believe there
is no middle-of-the-road solution. We were in a position where life was
becoming impossible, and we had passed into the region from which there is
no return through human resources, we had but two alternatives: One was to
go on to the bitter end, blotting out the consciousness of our intolerable
situation as best as we could; and the other was to accept Jesus Christ as
our Higher Power.
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Romans 7:15-25 points out -
“I don't understand myself at all, for I really want to do what is
right, but I don't do it. Instead, I do the very thing I hate. I
know perfectly well that what I am doing is wrong, and my bad
conscience shows that I agree that the law is good. But I can't help
myself, because it is sin inside me that makes me do these evil
things.
I know I am rotten through and through so far as my old sinful
nature is concerned. No matter which way I turn, I can't make myself
do right. I want to, but I can't. When I want to do good, I don't.
And when I try not to do wrong, I do it anyway. But if I am doing
what I don't want to do, I am not really the one doing it; the sin
within me is doing it.
It seems to be a fact of life that when I want to do what is right,
I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God's law with all my heart.
But there is another law at work within me that is at war with my
mind. This law wins the fight and makes me a slave to the sin that
is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free
me from this life that is dominated by sin? Thank God! The answer is
in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really
want to obey God's law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave
to sin.” (NLT) |
There is a Solution
By
working through the twelve steps with Jesus Christ as your Higher Power,
you can and will change! You will begin to experience the true peace and
serenity you have been seeking, and you will no longer have to rely on
your dysfunctional, compulsive, and addictive behaviors as a temporary
"fix" for your pain.
By
applying the biblical principles of conviction, conversion, surrender,
confession, restitution, prayer, quiet time, witnessing, and helping one
another, which are found within the Christ-centered 12 Steps, you will
restore and develop stronger relationships with others and with God
Chemical Dependency
Checklist |
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Have
you ever decided to stop drinking and/or using for a week or so, but only
lasted for a couple of days?
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Do you
wish people would mind their own business about your drinking and/or using
– stop telling you what to do? |
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Have
you ever switched from one kind of drink or drug to another in the hope
that this would keep you from losing control? |
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Have
you had to have an "eye-opener" upon awakening during the past year? Do
you need a drink or drug to get started, or stop shaking?
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Do you
envy people who can drink or use drugs without getting into trouble? |
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Have
you had problems connected with drinking or using during the past year?
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Has
your drinking or using caused trouble at home?
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Do you
ever try to get "extra" drinks or drugs at a party because you did not get
enough? |
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Do you
tell yourself you can stop drinking or using any time you want to, even
though you keep getting inebriated when you don’t mean to?
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Have
you missed days of work or school because of drinking or using? |
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Do you
have "blackouts"?
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Have
you ever felt that your life would be better if you did not drink or use? |
What is your score?
Did you answer YES two
(2) or more times? If so, you are probably in trouble with alcohol or
drugs.
But again, only you can
decide whether you think Freedom in Recovery is for you. Try to keep an
open mind on the subject. If the answer is YES, we will be glad to show
you how we stopped drinking and using drugs ourselves.
Freedom
in
Recovery does not promise to solve your life's problems. But we can show
you how we are learning to live without drinking or using one day at a
time with the help of our Higher Power, Jesus Christ. We stay away from
that first drink. If there is no first one, there cannot be a tenth one.
And when we are free of alcohol and drugs, we found that life became much
more manageable, with Christ’s power.
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